So I’m newly out and about...I've been dating, hanging, chatting, seeing as many gay men as I possibly can. It's much different than I thought and in some ways a lot better. It's also frustrating at times, as even being friends with another gay guy can be unnecessary drama. So here are 11 general life tips that I’m starting to think that more gay men then I’d like to admit seem to need.
Being a bitch is easy to do and doesn’t equal a personality. I’m sorry you’re a miserable person, but maybe it’s because you think overpaying for shoes makes you important?
If you weren’t so insecure you’d probably have an easier time getting along with people.
You’re not going to be pretty outside forever but you can be pretty inside forever...work on that as much as you would the gym.
Get a sense of humor. I know laughing causes you to smile and that gives you those awful wrinkles…try it though, you might like it.
Not everything is about you. Surprisingly things happen that don’t pertain to you at all!
Try seeing things from the other person’s perspective. It doesn’t make you weak…it makes you mature.
If you’re not going to commit to someone don’t get mad that they look for someone that will.
Try doing something nice for someone, it might give you some self worth.
Self medication is not going to solve any problems.
Being the bigger person is not a fat joke…it’s a real way humans get along.
Just because you’ve become jaded about relationships doesn’t mean the rest of us have to be.
Quit hating on people different than you. Differences in people is like differences in clothes, and we both know you wouldn't dare be seen at the club wearing the same thing as last time.
Lastly...eat a burger made of meat...you'll like it.
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